Jan 25 2012
The moment has finally come! Your significant other has popped the question and you’re swimming in happiness – but what is next? Here are a few steps to help you get started on your journey to everlasting bliss!
- Announce it! You have big news and word will inevitably spread fast! Make sure you tell the most significant people first. Mom wouldn’t want to hear about your engagement through a Facebook relationship status change. If at all possible, tell the crucial people first and follow with sharing it on your social networks.
A fun way to keep your friends and family updated is to build a wedding website. Write your love story, upload a photo album, announce your wedding party and give important information to guests. You can even have guests RSVP – which will give your poor writing hand a much needed rest!
- Party! This is a celebration! Go out for a bar night with friends or ask a close friend (probably your maid of honor or best man) to organize a small gathering to celebrate the occasion!

- Get Down Who is Paying for What. Traditionally, the bride’s family pays for: the ceremony, wedding dress, flower arrangements at ceremony, photos and video, reception, stationary and transportation. The groom’s family pays for the marriage license, officiant, tuxedo, bouquet and flowers your attendants will wear, honeymoon, and rehearsal dinner.
Feel free to think outside the box when setting a budget and figuring out who pays for what. Tradition doesn’t always dictate. You can register your weddingmoon online and have attendants make a contribution to your weddingmoon destination! Visit the Wedding and Honeymoon Registry for more information.
- Where, oh Where? Do you and your spouse prefer an intimate gathering of your nearest and dearest? Are you going big with 300+ guests? These decisions will inform your destination choice. Indoor wedding or outdoor wedding? While most venues can accommodate varying wedding parties, many may not have a decent indoor back up location in case of – gasp – rain! Start looking at locations and venues now to ensure availability.
- What’s Your Color? Chances are, this isn’t the first time you will have thought about your wedding colors. Go with your gut! If you need a little inspiration, check out this Destination Bridal Color.